People don’t change.
Nobody knows what’s up or what’s going on.
People mirror others to understand their wants. You mimic desires. No desire is truly your own .
Everyone craves for love. The form of love might be different.
The problem is with how we think not how we are or what we do. The entire problem is the lens through which we think.
when in childhood, when The child is most vulnerable its mind develop Coping mechanism against whatever the world they have to experience.
people relationship with others is an indiciation of the relationship with themselves.
child with bad or traumatic experiences go into hiding and put on a hard shell which blocks love to receive or being able to give. this is worrisome.
We are unhappy when we are not able to experience love.
with love, the child breaks apart their defenses and peeks through waiting to see if its okay to come outside.
The best gift you can give someone is accept them fully at a moment when they are at their worst. It changes something in them. Its letting them experience safety.
not everyone will experience the kind of love and safety required to heal themselves from childhood patterns and coping mechanism.
And there is god. We must invent god. God is not belief. it’s a necessity.
god is love
Surrender is the belief That there is a loving presence that has been taking care of you.
Children happens through people; not to people.
If you are here, nature wants you.
Nature has made arrangement, but all of man’s need. it has Made also arrangement of the perpetual need for love by humans.
but to find the eternal love, man must look inward. no amount of success, praise, money can fill their cups. if you are hungry, you eat pasta, you are satiated for a while. the hunger of love or the fear or losing love keeps people trapped in doing crazy stuff.
Surender. Be honest. Don’t try to control. Accept the reality. let go. Breathe. Wonder. dream. Play. Jump Really high. Cry. Be sad. be very sad. be happy. Don’t try to be better. Be selfish. Be horrible. be the worst version of yourself. be cruel. And then love. Love with all your might. love. Love. love.… Live
Maybes that’s what it’s all about in a nutshell